私の憧れの人 The Person I Admire

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私の憧れの人はキンジェジュンです。キンジェジュンは韓国のグルプ“東方神起”のメンバーです。彼はとてもハンサムとかっこいいです、だけど、この理由で彼が憧れますからじゃありません。キンジェジュンは歌手と俳優です。彼は歌がとても上手で、演技もいいです。

キンジェジュンの家族は十一人がいます。彼はお姉さんが八人います。でも、この家族はキンジェジュンの里親です。キンジェジュンまだ小さいの時自分の家族はぜんぜん会いません。今の家族はお金を持ちじゃありませんから、彼はまだ学校に勉強していますの時はアルバイトがしました。この時は歌手はなりたいから、つと歌を練習します。たくさんオーディションに行きました、最後はSM Entertainmentへ入りました。

The person that I admire is Hero Jaejoong from the Korea group TVXQ(Tong Vfang Shin Qi). He is very good-looking, but despite his looks, he is good at both singing and acting. He came a foster family that was not rich as his family consists of eleven members including him. Hence, he had to start doing part-time job when he was still studying in secondary school. His ambition is to be a singer and hence he start to practice singing since very young. He lived in the town called Chungnam and he had travel a long way to Seoul for singing audition.
When he was in Seoul, he rented a room. However, in order to pay for the room rental, he had work part-time as newspaper delivery boy, part-time sweet seller and even acted as a dead body in movies. There was a time when he hurt his leg when practicing the dances and he could not dance for a year. It had been a very difficult time for him as he had to watch his group members dance and he could not join him.

"Jaejoong was born on 26 January 1986 and he is the lead vocal of the group TVXQ. He won the best looking award in the SM Entertainment auditions and also passed the singing competition. His hobby is weight training and cooking. He sometimes carries out the role of a "big brother" or the "mother" towards the members, and also gives the most criticisms to the members regarding music. He has deep thoughts and talks straight-forwardly, which sometimes gets him into trouble. He enjoys cooking in his spare time and can prepare 15 kinds of dishes easily. Many, including himself, say that he gives a cold impression when first met, however, the members say he is most 'loving' and warm in the group after getting to know him better.

To the shock of the fans, it was revealed in 2006 that Jaejoong was adopted and his real last name was Han. He was raised by adoptive parents as a baby who had not revealed to him that he was adopted. He had no contact with his biological parents to the point where he did not even know of them until his biological mother came forward after his debut as a singer. His biological father was going to sue for custody, against his wishes, but dropped the case after Jaejoong's statement recognizing the man as his father. In a public statement, Jaejoong stated he wanted both his mothers to live happily and take care of him. He will not, however, change his name."

(Source: http://iamkoika.exteen.com/20080416/hero-youngwoong-jae-joong-profile-eng)

誕生日おめでとう！

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今月２６日はSwee Chengさんの誕生日ですよ。みなさんはSwee Chengさんがあっての時、きっと“誕生日おめでとう”を話します！

日本人の親族関係 Japanese Family Relationship

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日本人と家族の関係は堅く結ばれたじゃないと思います。どうして。多分時間がありませんから。日本人はつと忙しいでした、お父さんとお母さんはあまり会いませんでした。だから家族とあまりおしゃべりしません。両親と子供の断絶は広いです。子供は両親ではなしを怖がるです。お父さんとお母さんは子供の気持ちは理解しません。
Japanese give me the impression that they are not close to their family, for example their parents. This might be due to the busy working days of every Japanese living in big cities like Tokyo. They barely have time to rest themselves,hence we cannot expect them to spare some amount of time for their family. This resulted in the Japanese culture of parents not being close to their children and this often cause misunderstanding between teenagers and their parents.
I have read some autobiography written by Japanese authors like 手塚治虫　who draw the "Blackjack" comic and found that they were not close to their parents especially their father since childhood. In their childhood memories, their father will come back from home late from work everyday and they seldom have any conversation with their children. The fathers usually do not know how to express their care for their children as they are afraid that praising their children will caused them to be spoilt and used to be pampered.
However, I do not think that all families in Japan shows generation gap between parents and their child. I think that there may be some exceptions but I am yet to meet that family.