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日本人と家族の関係は堅く結ばれたじゃないと思います。どうして。多分時間がありませんから。日本人はつと忙しいでした、お父さんとお母さんはあまり会いませんでした。だから家族とあまりおしゃべりしません。両親と子供の断絶は広いです。子供は両親ではなしを怖がるです。お父さんとお母さんは子供の気持ちは理解しません。
Japanese give me the impression that they are not close to their family, for example their parents. This might be due to the busy working days of every Japanese living in big cities like Tokyo. They barely have time to rest themselves,hence we cannot expect them to spare some amount of time for their family. This resulted in the Japanese culture of parents not being close to their children and this often cause misunderstanding between teenagers and their parents.
I have read some autobiography written by Japanese authors like 手塚治虫 who draw the "Blackjack" comic and found that they were not close to their parents especially their father since childhood. In their childhood memories, their father will come back from home late from work everyday and they seldom have any conversation with their children. The fathers usually do not know how to express their care for their children as they are afraid that praising their children will caused them to be spoilt and used to be pampered.
However, I do not think that all families in Japan shows generation gap between parents and their child. I think that there may be some exceptions but I am yet to meet that family.
Thursday, January 1, 2009
日本人の親族関係 Japanese Family Relationship
Posted by Li Yee at 1:37 AM
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4 comments:
I agree wif u.. Mos of d Japanese parents do spare sum time wif their children such as strolling at d park n having their meal 2geder but they do not k enough.. If i m Japanese, I dare not talk 2 my dad coz a Japanese dad wilb vry strict n seldom smile.. (my opinion)
However, some of the japanese drama also shows the closed family relationship like 求婚大作战. I am lookin 4ward to interview japanese ppl to get to know the real situation
Actually regarding with my topic, i feel like they do not have enough to spend with their family after their hard work.
They need to spend some time to build up their close relationship between family members.
konnichiwa li yee,
yes, i agree with the fact that japanese are generally not close to their family. I had a japanese friend who came here for two months to do research. i asked him whether he always called back home, but he said he called only once a month! If I were him, I might be calling home 3 times a week cuz I'm rather close with my family.I thihk that, with modernization, family ties are rapidly weakening in japan. I think that's due to the influence of japanese dramas, which have always protrayed men as strong and independent, to the extent that they cares nothing about their family. Consequently,Japanese people, especially guys are more independent compared to us malaysians. This is because our families are overprotective.
That's all. Matane~
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